Tuesday, June 26, 2012

Adventrures with On Line Dating....part 3.5

Oh and here are the other issues I have with on line dating.....

1. Men my age want young 20somethings
2. Men my age seem to lie about their true age and put up pictures of them from 20 years ago
3. Men from overseas post that they live in my area, say they are widowed and that they are already in love with me based on my pictures

I can go on and on....over it!

Monday, June 25, 2012

Adventures in On Line Dating Part 3

Well, here I am again feeling very discouraged in this whole on line dating thing. I really think this is not God's way he want me meet the one He has for me. So, I will let the month come to an end and not renew my profile.

I don't know maybe I thought it would be different, that men would actually reply to messages that if they were very interested they would let me know.

Ugh....there is so many different ways I could spend $40 a month!!

So God....what/who do you have planned for me? I really hope you have him show up soon! I have been missing having that companionship.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Adventures in On Line Dating Part 2

So continues my On Line Dating experience, so let's see where am I in this little adventure?? Well...in the same place I was last week. This week did bring the promise of someone, but as the week went on that fizzled out.

I have emailed, winked at men that I don't necessarily find physically attractive but we have somethings in common and I have not heard back from any of them.

Then there is Zoosk (an app on Facebook), so I joined that and the first guy out the gate asked if I was only interested in a physical relationship. Told him that is a key to component to a relationship and he agreed then the next message was asking when we were going to meet up to have sex. Is this the kind of men that is out there? If so, I am staying home where it is safe.

I hope and pray for the next man to come into my life, if it is God's will then he will come if not it's ok. I am happy being alone. I truly am....yes it would be nice to share life's ups and downs with. But I don't like the rejection part of all of this.

It is safer at home.

Monday, June 11, 2012

Adventures in On Line Dating

Well, I have dipped my toe into the world of on line dating. Let me say this...on line dating sucks!!

I joined a free dating web site, didn't meet anyone. Those that were interested in me were not men I would date. I have standards, I have heard that you have to play the odds and say yes to men that you might not be physically attracted to but you might be attracted to on a different level. There was only one guy that I would have considered going on a date with and he seemed ok with just emailing back and forth but nothing more.

Now I am on a paying site, this one is just as bad. I have been emailing someone and he seemed interested then he asked to go to coffee and then backed out. Then I was IM'ing someone then he ended up being a fraud (he said he lived locally but really he was in another country). There are men that I find attractive and then I read more of their profile and they want a 30 something. I am coming to the conclusion most men my age want younger women.

Ugh....rejection on line hurts just as much as if it was in person.

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